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My Bullying Story.

December 3, 2019 By Dr. Joel Haber Leave a Comment

Just About Everyone Has a Bullying Story. So Do I! Mine happened when I was eleven years old. Every day after school, children of all ages played on my block on Long Island, New York. The house we grew up in was close to the next house and it was up to me to make […]

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How to Make Your Child Feel Powerless

November 6, 2019 By Dr. Joel Haber Leave a Comment

Copyright: iakovenko/123RF Stock Photo This post may seem a little harsh, but we all must keep in mind the words that come out of our mouths. There are plenty of “threats” parents use without even thinking about it, because they obviously don’t mean what they’ve said. When most parents say, “I’m gonna kill you!” of […]

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We All Contribute to the Bullying Problem

October 8, 2019 By Dr. Joel Haber Leave a Comment

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Copyright: ryujikawano/ 123RF Stock Photo We are all involved in the bullying problem to some degree We rarely think about ourselves as having anything to do with bullying, especially as adults. We think it happens to someone else. But the reality is that we are all involved in the bullying problem to some degree, some of […]

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How Parents Can Break the Bullying Cycle

October 2, 2019 By Dr. Joel Haber Leave a Comment

Break the Bullying Cycle

Analyzing how parents can break the bullying cycle, we find that bullies and targets often grow up in the same sorts of households.

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Approval of Peers

September 10, 2019 By Dr. Joel Haber Leave a Comment

Peer acceptance

Sorry, Mom and Dad, but your words of praise just don’t mean as much anymore as the child’s peers’ words do. As a child gets older, he begins to understand that the parent pretty much has to say nice things (you’re biased!) and that what you say doesn’t always match the way the rest of the world sees it.

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Fitting In Helps Your Child’s Self Esteem

August 28, 2019 By Dr. Joel Haber Leave a Comment

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If they need the stylish clothes and the hairspray and the contact lenses to feel okay about themselves for now, so be it. It’s not about wimping out; it’s about your child’s self-esteem and emotional survival in some very difficult years, where fitting in (and therefore “blending” in) is of primary importance.

Filed Under: High School Bullying, Middle School Bullying, Why Do Kids Bully

Gaining Social Confidence as a Child

August 13, 2019 By Dr. Joel Haber Leave a Comment

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True victory is achieved when the child feels friend-eligible and confident enough to know that no matter what a bully says, the child is still okay.

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Preserving Your Child’s Bullyproofing

July 31, 2019 By Dr. Joel Haber Leave a Comment

Bullyproofing Preservation

Once the crisis is resolved, we move to the third stage, which I refer to as the bullyproofing preservation phase.

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How to Deal with Relational Bullying

July 24, 2019 By Dr. Joel Haber Leave a Comment

how to deal with relational bullying

Dealing with gossip and rumors can be maddening because kids want so badly to set the record straight and defend themselves against the allegations. But mostly, protesting backfires and keeps the gossip alive.

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When Someone Hurts Your Feelings By Bullying

July 15, 2019 By Dr. Joel Haber Leave a Comment

When Someone Hurts Your Feelings By Bullying

When someone hurts your feelings by bullying, sensitive kids expect the bully to be sensitive. When they’re not, often the sensitive kid wants to tell the bully how she feels, particularly when they’re young and the bullying is verbal.

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BULLYPROOF YOUR CHILD FOR LIFE

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"Bully Coach" Joel Haber, Ph.D., is one of the foremost experts in the prevention of bullying. A pioneer in the field, he has worked with thousands of kids, parents, teachers, counselors, and others to understand the root causes of the bullying dynamic-from identifying bully types to exposing the reasons why kids become bullies, targets, or bystanders-and stamp it out once and for all.

Delivering a practical, supportive, and step-by-step "bullyproofing prescription" that yields lasting results for both boys and girls, from grade school through high school, Bullyproof Your Child for Life offers specific action steps to help any child build resilience and confidence, develop compassion and trust, and thrive in school, camp, sports, and beyond.

Empowering, instructive, and inspiring, this much needed guide will help parents detect the early signs of bullying and intervene-with lasting results.

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