Learning how to talk to your child about bullying is not an easy task. I have developed a set of questions to help you create a productive conversation with your child. Instead of trying to pull teeth out to get your child to respond, ask questions that lead to deeper responses. You can modify these […]
How to Talk to Your Child About Bullying
The Bully Proofing Prescription: Phase One: Recognize – Continued Before we move onto how to talk to your children about bullying, let’s talk first about the differences between how boys and girls handle a bullying conversation. The Differences when speaking to boys and girls about bullying Boys are generally more sensitive than girls about exposing […]
The Bullyproofing Prescription
Three steps make up the bully proofing prescription: Recognize, Act, and Preserve (RAP). This will be a long section so I will break it into bite size chunks over a series of different posts Bullying is meant to humiliate, and it does its job quite well. Often, bullied kids are so embarrassed that they don’t […]
Bullying. It’s Not a Tragedy, But an Opportunity
One key point I’d like to impress upon parents is that—strange as it may sound now—there can be something really positive about bullying. Think about the times when you’ve felt really good about yourself. Go ahead: Think of a few examples of times when you felt proud of yourself. Got it? Most of the experiences […]
Long-Term Consequences of Bullying
Even when the bullying doesn’t end in broken bones or death, it can have long-standing consequences for all involved—the target, the bully, those who assist the bully or the target, and the observers. You may have seen talk shows where formerly bullied kids come to say “look at me now” to their old tormentors. There’s […]
Social Dominance Theory
According to Social Dominance Theory, there is a hierarchy in all group situations. Someone’s always going to be at the top of the ladder and someone’s always going to be on the bottom. Now, of course, no one wants to be the one on the bottom—therefore, they want someone else to be on the bottom. […]
Bullying Statistics – Where the Power Lies
Bullying Statistics: 85% Do Nothing Statistics on bullying show that, on any given day in a classroom, bullies and targets usually constitute 15 percent of the population. That means that the other 85 percent of the children serve as observers in the bully dynamic. Interestingly enough, these observers may be the most powerful actors in […]
3 Types of Bullying
There are three main types of bullying with different probable effects. Physical Bullying This is the one that’s easiest to identify. Punching, kicking, hair-pulling, bra-snapping, tripping, shoving someone into a locker— these can all be physical bullying episodes. Maybe surprisingly, this is usually the type of bullying with the fewest long-term scars for the target. […]
Sibling Rivalry and Bullying
Kids test out their power and aggression with each other first, generally because there’s a natural age imbalance, but how it develops and progresses is a function of parenting. If kids find out they can get away with it and aggression pays off, it will continue and turn into bullying. Sibling rivalry is really just […]
Why Are Kids Bullied?
Bullies will find any excuse to pick on a target. Too tall. Too short. Too fat. Too skinny. Too smart. Too stupid. Poor. An out-of-fashion haircut. Glasses. Braces. Different religion. Different race. Perceived homosexuality. Poor athletic ability. Flat-chested. Developing breasts early. A stutter. Teacher’s pet. Shy. Disabled. Any type of perceived vulnerability will make a […]
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