{"id":3998,"date":"2020-09-24T14:31:41","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T14:31:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/?p=3998"},"modified":"2022-09-02T16:37:38","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T16:37:38","slug":"teach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/teach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers\/","title":{"rendered":"Teach Your Kids How To Deal With Gossip Mongers"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/teach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=Teach Your Kids How To Deal With Gossip Mongers&url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/teach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/teach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.digg.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/teach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Digg\" class=\"s3-digg hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/reddit.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/teach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers\/&title=Teach Your Kids How To Deal With Gossip Mongers\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Reddit\" class=\"s3-reddit hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/teach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.stumbleupon.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/teach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers\/&title=Teach Your Kids How To Deal With Gossip Mongers\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to StumbleUpon\" class=\"s3-stumbleupon hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tumblr.com\/share\/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.respectu.com%2Fhome%2Fteach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers%2F&name=Teach+Your+Kids+How+To+Deal+With+Gossip+Mongers\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Tumblr\" class=\"s3-tumblr hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=Teach%20Your%20Kids%20How%20To%20Deal%20With%20Gossip%20Mongers&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/teach-your-kids-how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div><p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3994\" src=\"http:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/how-to-deal-with-gossip-mongers.jpg\" alt=\"how to deal with gossip mongers\" width=\"848\" height=\"565\" \/>Copyright: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.123rf.com\/profile_ulkas\">Ulkas\/123RF Stock Photo<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Teaching your kids how to deal with gossipmongers can be challenging.<\/h2>\n<p>Kids want so badly to set the record straight and defend themselves against the gossipmonger allegations. But mostly, protesting backfires and keeps the gossip alive.<\/p>\n<p>So there\u2019s a very simple way for your child to react, consistently, when someone brings a rumor to her attention.<\/p>\n<p>Here it is: GOSSIP HOUND: I heard you kissed that geek, Martin.<\/p>\n<p>YOUR CHILD: Do you believe that I did that?<\/p>\n<p>At this point, the gossipmonger may say no. In that case, your child can answer, \u201cGood. Then it doesn\u2019t matter.\u201d If the child says yes, or \u201cI don\u2019t know,\u201d your child can say, \u201cYou can believe whatever you want. I don\u2019t care.\u201d Either way, that\u2019s as far as it should go. There should be no emotional protests to satisfy whoever started the rumor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Think about how powerful your child will feel when she can come back with something that may stop the negative comments. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dealing with the silent treatment can be even more hurtful.<\/p>\n<p>A child who is shunned by her usual group\u2014they stop talking to her, stop making eye contact, roll their eyes and whisper as she walks past, don\u2019t allow her to sit with them at lunch, etc.\u2014can easily fall prey to depression. In some cases, the friendships will be repaired, but if it happens more than once, it\u2019s probably not the best group for your child to depend on for social validation.<\/p>\n<p>Now, you may be thinking that these girls are everything to your daughter and that it is unrealistic for her to change this group. Well, is this your thinking or your daughter\u2019s thinking?<\/p>\n<p>Some children need to understand the value of friendship, openness to others, and diversity. Encourage your child to make friends in other groups, to approach people who aren\u2019t all part of the same clique.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s risky for a child to have friends from only one particular group\u2014if all her friends are on the volleyball team, or they\u2019re all in chorus, or it\u2019s the same four or five girls hanging out every weekend, that\u2019s worrisome.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s too much riding on those friendships; if the most powerful girl in the group decides that your daughter is no longer \u201ccool\u201d or has done something she doesn\u2019t approve of, your daughter may feel completely adrift. The sooner your children understand that <strong>having friends in other places actually makes them feel\u00a0stronger<\/strong>, you prevent the \u201call or nothing\u201d response when something goes wrong in their social group. Instead of spending her time trying to win her way back into her old group, or obsessing about those girls, encourage her to join a new after-school activity and talk to kids in other social circles.<\/p>\n<p>Or if they are dissing her one day, get her to react by role-playing the \u201cI really don\u2019t care\u201d attitude, which will bring the other kids back because they won\u2019t understand why your child doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Teaching your kids how to deal with gossipmongers can be challenging. Kids want so badly to set the record straight and defend themselves against the gossipmonger allegations. 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