{"id":3854,"date":"2019-07-24T15:11:53","date_gmt":"2019-07-24T15:11:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/?p=3854"},"modified":"2022-09-02T16:37:42","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T16:37:42","slug":"how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Deal with Relational Bullying"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=How to Deal with Relational Bullying&url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.digg.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Digg\" class=\"s3-digg hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/reddit.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying\/&title=How to Deal with Relational Bullying\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Reddit\" class=\"s3-reddit hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.stumbleupon.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying\/&title=How to Deal with Relational Bullying\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to StumbleUpon\" class=\"s3-stumbleupon hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tumblr.com\/share\/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.respectu.com%2Fhome%2Fhow-to-deal-with-relational-bullying%2F&name=How+to+Deal+with+Relational+Bullying\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Tumblr\" class=\"s3-tumblr hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=How%20to%20Deal%20with%20Relational%20Bullying&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div><p><span class=\"secondheader\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3855\" src=\"http:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying.jpg\" alt=\"how to deal with relational bullying\" width=\"847\" height=\"565\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying.jpg 847w, https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/how-to-deal-with-relational-bullying-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 847px) 100vw, 847px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal;\">Copyright: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.123rf.com\/profile_racorn\">Racorn\/ 123RF Stock Photo<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"secondheader\">Relational bullying can be:<\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Gossip<\/li>\n<li>Exclusion<\/li>\n<li>Mean letters.<\/li>\n<li>Slam books.<\/li>\n<li>Silent treatment.<\/li>\n<li>Eye rolling.<\/li>\n<li>Withdrawing a friendship.<\/li>\n<li>Threatening to end a friendship, to tell others her secrets, or to tell a boy about a crush she has.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"p1\">Dealing with gossip and rumors can be maddening because kids want so badly to set the record straight and defend themselves against the allegations. But mostly, protesting backfires and keeps the gossip alive.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">So there&#8217;s a very simple way for your child to react, consistently, when someone brings a rumor to her attention. Here it is:<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s1\">GOSSIP HOUND: I heard you kissed that geek, Martin. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\">YOUR CHILD: Do you believe that I did that?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">At this point, the gossip hound may say no. In that case, your child can answer, &#8220;Good. Then it doesn&#8217;t matter.&#8221; If the child says yes, or &#8220;I don&#8217;t know,&#8221; your child can say, &#8220;You can believe whatever you want. I don&#8217;t care.&#8221; Either way, that&#8217;s as far as it should go. There should be no emotional protests to satisfy whoever started the rumor. Think about how powerful your child will feel when she can come back with something that may stop the negative comments.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">Dealing with the silent treatment can be even more hurtful. A child who is shunned by her usual group\u2014they stop talking to her, stop making eye contact, roll their eyes and whisper as she walks past, don&#8217;t allow her to sit with them at lunch, etc.\u2014can easily fall prey to depression.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p6\">In some cases, the friendships will be repaired, but if it happens more than once, it&#8217;s probably not the best group for your child to depend\u00a0on for social validation. Now, you may be thinking that these girls are everything to your daughter and that it is unrealistic for her to change this group. Well, is this your thinking or your daughter&#8217;s thinking? Some children need to understand the value of friendship, openness to others, and diversity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p6\">Encourage your child to make friends in other groups, to approach people who aren&#8217;t all part of the same clique. It&#8217;s risky for a child to have friends from only one particular group\u2014if all her friends are on the volleyball team, or they&#8217;re all in chorus, or it&#8217;s the same four or five girls hanging out every weekend, that&#8217;s worrisome. There&#8217;s too much riding on those friendships; if the most powerful girl in the group decides that your daughter is no longer &#8220;cool&#8221; or has done something she doesn&#8217;t approve of, your daughter may feel completely adrift. The sooner your children understand that having friends in other places actually makes them feel stronger, you prevent the &#8220;all or nothing&#8221; response when something goes wrong in their social group.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">Instead of spending her time trying to win her way back into her old group, or obsessing about those girls, encourage her to join a new after-school activity and talk to kids in other social circles. Or if they are dissing her one day, get her to react by role-playing the &#8220;I really don&#8217;t care&#8221; attitude, which will bring the other kids back because they won&#8217;t understand why your child doesn&#8217;t care.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dealing with gossip and rumors can be maddening because kids want so badly to set the record straight and defend themselves against the allegations. 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