{"id":3475,"date":"2018-11-13T18:56:43","date_gmt":"2018-11-13T18:56:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/?p=3475"},"modified":"2022-09-02T16:38:07","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T16:38:07","slug":"the-bullyproofing-prescription","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/the-bullyproofing-prescription\/","title":{"rendered":"The Bullyproofing Prescription"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/the-bullyproofing-prescription\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=The Bullyproofing Prescription&url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/the-bullyproofing-prescription\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/the-bullyproofing-prescription\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.digg.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/the-bullyproofing-prescription\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Digg\" class=\"s3-digg hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/reddit.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/the-bullyproofing-prescription\/&title=The Bullyproofing Prescription\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Reddit\" class=\"s3-reddit hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/the-bullyproofing-prescription\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.stumbleupon.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/the-bullyproofing-prescription\/&title=The Bullyproofing Prescription\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to StumbleUpon\" class=\"s3-stumbleupon hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tumblr.com\/share\/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.respectu.com%2Fhome%2Fthe-bullyproofing-prescription%2F&name=The+Bullyproofing+Prescription\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Tumblr\" class=\"s3-tumblr hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=The%20Bullyproofing%20Prescription&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/the-bullyproofing-prescription\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div><div id=\"attachment_3626\" style=\"width: 857px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3626\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3626\" src=\"http:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/64146128_s-copy.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"847\" height=\"565\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/64146128_s-copy.jpg 847w, https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/64146128_s-copy-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/64146128_s-copy-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 847px) 100vw, 847px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3626\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal;\">Copyright: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.123rf.com\/profile_kwangmoo\"><span style=\"font-size: 11px; font-weight: normal;\">kwangmoo \/ 123RF Stock Photo<\/span><\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<h1 class=\"p1\">Three steps make up the bully proofing prescription:<br \/>\nRecognize, Act, and Preserve (RAP).<\/h1>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em>This will be a long section so I will break it into bite size chunks over a series of different posts<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Bullying is meant to humiliate, and it does its job quite well. Often, bullied kids are so embarrassed that they don&#8217;t even want to tell their parents. They may be afraid that the parent will tell them never to speak to a bullying kid again, think less of them, that the parent will side with the bullies, make light of the problem, take action that will humiliate them further, or worse: not believe them. So how can you find out what&#8217;s going on?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span style=\"color: #6db748;\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Phase One: Recognize<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p3\">Before we can tackle the bullying problem, you&#8217;ll need to recognize the problem and find out exactly what&#8217;s happening. The real challenge parents face in the crisis phase\u2014and unfortunately, events are likely to unfold in this manner\u2014comes when your child, out of shame, guilt, fear, or some combination of all three, doesn&#8217;t share with you what&#8217;s been going on until the crisis is so acute she feels completely overwhelmed. At this point, the way you react can have a big impact.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">Recognizing the problem entails detailed discussions with the child and appropriate reactions so the child will trust that you&#8217;re on his team and able to help. Use the following steps:<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><strong><span class=\"s1\"><i>1. Read cues to initiate a talk.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">Choosing the right time for heart-to-heart conversations is crucial. The time to talk to your child about bullying behaviors is not when he&#8217;s watching his favorite television show, playing a video game, or trying to go to sleep. Ideally, you&#8217;ll know it&#8217;s the right time to talk because the child comes to <i>you <\/i>and tells you about the problem. This is more common with younger kids, but even then, it doesn&#8217;t always happen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">Don&#8217;t jump to take it personally if a child doesn&#8217;t talk to you about these kinds of problems. It may have something to do with how you&#8217;ve reacted to other problems in the past, or it may have nothing to do with you\u2014it could just be that the child is embarrassed, wants to pretend it never happened, wants to figure out how to deal with it on his own, is too upset to talk about it right now, or any number of other reasons.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p6\">If the child is just sitting around looking glum, that&#8217;s a time to approach. If confidentiality isn&#8217;t an issue (no other siblings at the table), during dinner might be an okay time. In the car while driving home from school or an activity is an ideal time. If you don&#8217;t seem to have a perfect time built in, make one. Ask the child to help you with dinner preparation, or setting the table. Ask the child to come with you to pick up dessert.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong><span class=\"s1\"><i>2.<\/i><\/span><i> <\/i><span class=\"s2\"><i>Help the child open up.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">Always start the conversation on a positive or neutral note that doesn&#8217;t have to do with bullying. The key point here is for you to be relaxed. If you&#8217;re uptight, whatever conversation you begin will be seen as covering up some other agenda you have. Some good conversation-starters include:<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><i>Did you learn anything interesting today?<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\"><i>What did you do in recess today?<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><i>Did you hear about. . . that I heard on the radio or saw on TV today?<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p6\"><i>Did you do anything fun with your friends today?<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p7\"><i>What was your favorite thing that you did today?<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p8\">You can ease your way into the tougher questions, but begin by letting the child see that you are engaged, interested, and ready to listen before jumping into &#8220;risky&#8221; territory. Then you can ask about bullying experiences.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p9\">If the child says, &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to talk about it,&#8221; respect that and ask the child to come back to you when he <i>is <\/i>ready. If he doesn&#8217;t come back to talk about it, try again after a meal, or the following day. Don&#8217;t get threatening or angry about the reluctance to talk. Forcing a child to talk is going to backfire, simple as that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p10\"><strong><span class=\"s1\"><i>3.<\/i><\/span><i> <\/i><span class=\"s2\"><i>React calmly.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p11\">This is one of the most important parts of the whole equation: You need to stay cool, no matter what comes out of your child&#8217;s mouth. From the moment that child begins opening up, you&#8217;re\u00a0being tested. You have to pass the test, or there may not be a next time. One of the main points is that your child wants to see that you won&#8217;t &#8220;freak out.&#8221; (Parents are known for shutting down the conversation when they &#8220;freak out.&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><i>Don&#8217;t <\/i>react with alarm, anger, or overt anxiety. <i>Don&#8217;t <\/i>appear upset or fearful. This will push your child&#8217;s sense of crisis into overdrive.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">You are a very tall person with a lot of power in that child&#8217;s mind. Your main job right now is to look sympathetic and listen. Keep your intense emotions to yourself or wait until you calm down. Take a couple of deep breaths until you feel at ease. If you open up conversation with lots of intensity, you can expect to get back lots of intensity. It&#8217;s tough enough for your child to open up without having to worry about your reaction.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">Most parents think they&#8217;ll react calmly . . . until the situation actually arises. Then it <i>actually <\/i>goes more like this:<\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><span class=\"s1\">PARENT: So, what happened?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p6\">CHILD: This kid named Bobby kicked me on the bus today, and I fell down and dropped my notebook, so his friend picked it up and ripped up the pages and threw them out the window. Then Bobby told me if I said anything, he would beat me up after school.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p7\">PARENT: They did <i>what} <\/i>He <i>kicked you}\\ <\/i>Didn&#8217;t the bus driver say anything? Who are these kids? I want their parents&#8217; phone numbers. How dare they! Is this the same kid who ripped your backpack last month? I&#8217;m going to straighten him out! HE SHOULDN&#8217;T EVEN BE ALLOWED IN SCHOOL! THAT JERK IS GONNA PAY FOR THIS!<\/p>\n<p class=\"p8\">This is the point when your kid decides it was a big mistake to say anything and vows never to open his mouth again. Instead, you\u00a0 could just say, &#8220;Were you hurt? Are you okay?&#8221; You can scream in the car, alone, later.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\"><i>4.<\/i><\/span><i> <\/i><span class=\"s2\"><i>Use active listening techniques.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">One of the best ways to show a child you&#8217;re listening and understanding is to mirror back her feelings. Resist all urges to interrupt with pointed questions, advice, or blame. Instead, just sit there and listen and occasionally nod and interpret what feelings you think she&#8217;s expressing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\">For example, if she says, &#8220;No one let me play with them at recess today,&#8221; you could say, &#8220;Boy, you must have felt lonely.&#8221; If she says someone tripped her in the hall, you could say, &#8220;That must have been so embarrassing to you.&#8221; Then she can agree and let you know you&#8217;re on the right track\u2014or disagree and correct you about how she really felt. (&#8220;I didn&#8217;t feel lonely. I felt mad!&#8221;) Remember, if you make a comment about her feelings or what you think she&#8217;s feeling, you&#8217;re on the right track!<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\"><i>5.<\/i><\/span><i> <\/i><span class=\"s3\"><i>Take breaks.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\">You don&#8217;t have to solve everything right now. Again, watch for cues. If your child is shutting down, repeating himself, getting over-emotional, losing focus, showing frustration, or not listening well, take a break. This is a weighty issue for your child, and he may be able to handle only a little bit at a time. Say something like, &#8220;Why don&#8217;t we take a break and talk some more later? We&#8217;ll come up with a plan and somehow we&#8217;ll find a way to help.&#8221; Always end on a hopeful note.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><b><i>6. Praise.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">Similarly, you&#8217;ll want to end each conversation with positive reinforcement for the child:<\/p>\n<p class=\"p4\"><i>I&#8217;m really proud of you for talking about this.<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><i>I&#8217;m really proud of you for being so brave.<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p5\"><i>I&#8217;m really proud of you for the way you handled yourself.<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p6\"><i>I&#8217;m really proud of you for being mature.<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p6\"><i>I&#8217;m really proud of you for trying out something new.<\/i><\/p>\n<p class=\"p7\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>I&#8217;m really glad you told me, even though it&#8217;s not easy to talk about.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Three steps make up the bully proofing prescription: Recognize, Act, and Preserve (RAP). 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