{"id":3189,"date":"2016-02-19T16:50:17","date_gmt":"2016-02-19T16:50:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/?p=3189"},"modified":"2022-09-02T16:38:27","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T16:38:27","slug":"how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying\/","title":{"rendered":"How do Bystanders Contribute to Bullying?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"s-share-buttons\" class=\"horizontal-w-c-circular s-share-w-c\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Facebook\" class=\"s3-facebook hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=How do Bystanders Contribute to Bullying?&url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Twitter\" class=\"s3-twitter hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/share?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Google Plus\" class=\"s3-google-plus hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.digg.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying\/\" target=\"_blank\"  title=\"Share to Digg\" class=\"s3-digg hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/reddit.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying\/&title=How do Bystanders Contribute to Bullying?\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Reddit\" class=\"s3-reddit hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to LinkedIn\" class=\"s3-linkedin hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.stumbleupon.com\/submit?url=https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying\/&title=How do Bystanders Contribute to Bullying?\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to StumbleUpon\" class=\"s3-stumbleupon hint--top\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tumblr.com\/share\/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.respectu.com%2Fhome%2Fhow-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying%2F&name=How+do+Bystanders+Contribute+to+Bullying%3F\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share to Tumblr\" class=\"s3-tumblr hint--top\"><\/a><div class=\"pinit-btn-div\"><a href=\"\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/\" data-pin-do=\"buttonBookmark\"  data-pin-color=\"red\" title=\"Share to Pinterest\" class=\"s3-pinterest hint--top\"><\/a><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<script type=\"text\/javascript\" async defer src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/js\/pinit.js\"><\/script><a href=\"mailto:?Subject=How%20do%20Bystanders%20Contribute%20to%20Bullying?&Body=Here%20is%20the%20link%20to%20the%20article:%20https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying\/\" title=\"Email this article\" class=\"s3-email hint--top\"><\/a><\/div><p><span class=\"kithambassador\"><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" height=\"402px\" width=\"622px\" scrolling=\"no\"  frameborder=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/www.kidsinthehouse.com\/video\/embed\/7562\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>For more information on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kidsinthehouse.com\/ar-kids?ref=Partnership\" title=\"Videos about elementary education from Parenting Experts\">elementary education<\/a> v<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Bystanders play a huge role in the bullying dynamic, remember there\u2019s a bullying child, there\u2019s the target of bullying and then there\u2019s the rest of the kids who watch.<\/p>\n<p>Bystanders are so important because they see more bullying than any adults do. Kids who do bully, are not going to do bullying in front of teachers or in front of aids because they\u2019re going to get caught. But they will do it in front of their peers because they\u2019re looking from comradery for bullying behavior.<\/p>\n<p>So bystanders have the biggest power group since 10% of kids do bullying behavior and 10% are targets, 80% have a big power group. The problem is that bystanders watch bullying and even if they know what to do, lots of times they wait for everyone else to step up.<\/p>\n<p>Most bystanders are afraid to step up and do what\u2019s right, but they are the solution if we can make it safe for them to report.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Dr. Haber is available for speaking engagements and consultations to help your combat your school or workplace bullying issues.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"button\" href=\"http:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/index.php\/contact\/\"><strong>Contact Dr. Haber<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For more information on elementary education v Bystanders play a huge role in the bullying dynamic, remember there\u2019s a bullying child, there\u2019s the target of bullying and then there\u2019s the rest of the kids who watch. Bystanders are so important because they see more bullying than any adults do. Kids who do bully, are not [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[92,89],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>How do Bystanders Contribute to Bullying? - Bullying Speaker, Counselor &amp; Expert<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.respectu.com\/home\/how-do-bystanders-contribute-to-bullying\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"How do Bystanders Contribute to Bullying? - Bullying Speaker, Counselor &amp; Expert\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"For more information on elementary education v Bystanders play a huge role in the bullying dynamic, remember there\u2019s a bullying child, there\u2019s the target of bullying and then there\u2019s the rest of the kids who watch. 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