Dr. Haber is a much sought-after bullying speaker and expert. Dr. Haber will speak to your group concerning bullying and bullying prevention. He is passionate and inspiring, getting to the heart of why people bully and what you can do about it as a parent. Plus, Dr. Haber provides valuable tips you can use with your child to prevent bullying before it starts.
Here are some great tips you can use if you or your child has been a victim of bullying.
parents find themselves asking these questions about bullying...
How do I stop a bully or prevent bullying?
What do I do if my child is being bullied?
Is there a bullying expert I can turn to for help?
If your child is being bullied, youíve come to the right place. Iím Dr.
Joel Haber, national bully expert, counselor, author and speaker. I have been helping children, families, schools, camps, sports programs and businesses with problems of bullying for over 20 years. I can provide anti-bullying techniqes to prevent bullying and counseling for children and parents for those who have been bullied. I know how scary
bullying can be, and how overwhelming, upsetting, angering and
frustrating it is to see your child tormented by other kids. I know how
miserable it feels to see your child suffering and the pain it causes. You
donít have to fight this battle on your own. I
can help you develop a plan to overcome bullying and prevent future bullying. Together we can develop a solid anti-bullying plan!
Here are 5 things that you can do right now if your child has been a victim of bullying:
Try to calm yourself and talk to your child when you are calm. They already feel ashamed
and humiliated from being picked on by a bully. Your distress will upset them more and shut them down.
Tell your child you know it is hard, and youíll work with them to find a way to get
Share a story of your own about bullying if you can to show them you know what this
Donít take over and solve the problem for them even though you may want to. Tell your
child that you will work on a plan together that wonít make the bullying situation worse.
Tell your child that you will be there to help them every step of the way, and they
are not alone.
4 Bits of Anti-Bullying Good News!
Your child has a parent who cares. You recognize they are being bullied and thank goodness
they have someone who wants to help so they donít have to feel alone, scared and isolated.
I know what this bully problem is all about. Iíve had experience with all types of bullying,
including cyberbullying and I help kids and families deal
with every situation. This problem is not new to me and you can get help.
The bullying problem your child has is bad right now, but doesnít have to continue with
the right solutions! Your child has to know they are not alone, and making this call will
show them them they can get help. And you can, too- so take a deep breath!
Bullying is manageable, and I will help you do it.